Wednesday, September 14, 2022

Guys and Gals

I have arrived.  I guess.  I have a ‘guy’ that cuts my lawn now and rakes my leaves.  Collin.  A great kid.  A ski racer.  His parents drive him here and wait for him to finish.  Great parents.  And when he is in training in Italy or Argentina his mother or a friend comes over and cuts my lawn.   I wonder if they shovel snow?

My Guy Collin started at $20 a cut.  This year he wanted $40.   We settled at $30 - with a $5 tip.  He’s a good negotiator and he chats me up every time he stops by.   It’s not about the money, it’s about responsibility and accountability.  He has a Pay Pal and Venmo account, and he is reliable.  I’ve been looking for a kid to cut my lawn for years and could not find one willing and able.  Colin is a life saver.  So I can dawdle at my own little instant gratification projects, go for a bike ride or hit the hammock.  I’m free. 

Our lawns are our symbol of Americana.  I can’t grasp the sum total of the reality of the real world but if my lawn is neat and trim than all must be right in the universe.   It is our membership card in our neighborhood, keeping up with the Joneses and maintaining our property values. It is our grounding in the middle class where all the real work and the fun is.  It is our instant, visible gratification in a world where there is less and less.

It takes hundreds of dollars of water a month to water my lawn, water that could be put to good use somewhere else.  Brown is not beautiful here yet so we feed it and weed it and water it and cultivate it so it grows well and has to be cut more.  We have green lawns and golf courses, parks and farms and we wonder where all the water goes.  It is like the joy of banging our heads against the wall; it feels so good when we stop.

The point is I don’t have to cut it and I love that.  I was getting tired of it.  Dreading it.  Now I just say let it grow.  I know my dad taught us to cut our own lawn and paint our own house but I am sick of lawn and home maintenance.  It never stops.  The dandelions just keep popping up, the lawn keeps growing and the paint keeps peeling. But I’ve got a ‘guy’ now.

That is the best thing about living in a small town for a long time.  You have a ‘guy’ (or gal) for everything.  No matter if you are fixing something or buying insurance, painting the house or cutting the lawn, you have a guy, a sort of friend, who has always taken care of it for you.  He doesn’t overcharge you or blow smoke up your ass, he just does the job at a good price.   And if they have questions on hydrology or engineering, water, rivers or dams, I help them out.  I’m their guy.  It’s a specialized society, particularly in a small town.  I’ve got a guy who tunes my bike and a guy who tunes my skis, a guy that designed my house and one who built it, an electrician and a plumber.  It takes a town.  I love those guys.

Every time I go out for an errand, I run into a ‘guy’ or friend or a casual acquaintance, chat them up and feel connected.  Maybe its my old stockbroker from high school who lives down the block or my real estate ski buddy, my old dentist’s dentist son, or my eye doctor who grew up with a friend of a friend.  Then there are my urologist, neurologist, pulmonologist and physical therapy gals or our Gold medalist orthopedic or freestyle filmmaker, snowboard champion.  This town is full of  laid back, over-achieving individuals that add value and contribute.   We are all friends.

 That’s what makes small towns so attractive and this town so exceptional.  We need to cherish and respect each other and our specialties for the total value gained is greater than the sum of our individual expertise and efforts.  We collectively make this town great.  That’s why I still walk down the street and say 'hey' to everyone.  They are my ‘guys and gals’.


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Tuesday, September 13, 2022

Good, Old Park City

 



Park City evolved in waves over the past 50 years, from a hip little ski town to the international destination-resort it is today.  We weren’t Mork and Mindy, Rocky Mountain High glitz like Colorado.  We were the sleepy, edgy, underachiever, off the radar, on the fringe - in Utah of all places.  People were afraid of the Utonian natives and thought you could not buy a coffee or have drink here. But we knew better. We loved it.  We called it home.



Our early town moto could be found on the back of icon Ira Sac’s business card, – ‘Be More, Appear Less’.  We grew better when we grew slowly.  That lasted only so long in spite of the admirable development protests of CARG and other dedicated citizens chained to bulldozers.  Some of us remember the water wars; days of dry tanks, rationing, water moratoriums and massive lawsuits.  So, we threw a lot of money at that and solved the problem by coordinating, regionalizing and pumping our water from the Weber River.  Water flows uphill, towards money.


We also remember the two-lane highways that flowed gently into town, with no traffic or traffic lights in Summit or Wasatch Counties.  Then one day we woke up and 224 was as wide as an airport runway with ten traffic lights and a roundabout between I-80 and Deer Valley.  Then there was a traffic calming flower box planted in the middle of 248 that alternatively proclaimed our resistance to building big roads that would increase our traffic.  If you build it, they will come.  Traffic flows towards money.


We built parking lots in Old Town and paved Guardsman Road to plough more cars into our residential, historical districts.  We contracted paid parking on Main Street while developing two bus systems and building unobtainable satellite park-and-ride lots.  Powder days and weekends saw gridlock along with Sundance, Arts Fest, and summer weekends with multiple events.  ‘You can’t get there from here’ became the new refrain.  You can’t buy your way out of a traffic jam.


But Park City still doesn’t suck.  We now have 500 miles of trails, 3 interconnected ski resort bases, endless (but inaccessible) backcountry, a free bus system, relatively low taxes and excellent services.  We host THE major international film festival and A highly respected arts festival.  There is always; music, theatre, culture, coordinated philanthropy and social justice.  And let’s not mention that we still have a sense of humor, a sense of place and a sense of who we are.  

So, where do we go from here.  How can we save the Golden Goose or is growth like a shark that dies if it stops.  Do we want to become another Aspenized ghost town of second homes?  How do we save ourselves from industrial-corporate skiing, big development or our government’s own entanglements and ambitions?   Can we solve the Chambers popularity progression or endless development de-evolution, to save the soul and spirit that made this town?  Or do we do what humans have always done; move on to the next great place and ruin that? 


I, for one, still have faith in our evolution away from those original, opportunistic interlopers who took the money and ran, moving rather towards the stickers and stayers of today, the people who value our collective standard of living and local quality of life more than the almighty dollar.  But money changes everything.  Now that we are all home-equity millionaires, it depends on our own avarice and greed, resolve and resolution, voice and action, leadership and public participation.   Don’t follow the money this year, follow the community, the committed, the local values and the love of this place we call home. 


Our Town

Iris DeMent


And you know the sun's setting fast

And just like they say, nothing good ever lasts

Go on now and kiss it goodbye

But hold on to your lover 'cause your heart's bound to die

Go on now and say goodbye to our town, to our town

Can't you see the sun's setting down on our town, on our town

Goodnight


Up the street, beside that red neon light

That's where I met my baby on one hot summer night

He was the 'tender and I ordered the beer

It's been forty years and I'm still sitting here


Here I had my babies and I had my first kiss

I've walked down Main Street in the cold morning mist

Over there is where I bought my first car

It turned over once but then it never went far


I buried my mama and I buried my pa

They sleep up the street beside that pretty brick wall

I bring 'em flowers about every day

But I just gotta cry when I think what they'd say


Now I sit on the porch and watch the lightning bugs fly

But I can't see too good, I got tears in my eyes

I'm leaving tomorrow but I don't wanna go

I love you, my town, you'll always live in my soul


But I can see the sun's setting fast

And just like they say, nothing good ever lasts

Well. go on, I gotta kiss you goodbye

But I'll hold on to my lover 'cause my heart's 'bout to die

Go on now and say goodbye to my town, to my town

I can see the sun has gone down on my town, on my town

Goodnight

Goodnight



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Pickle Ball is Life?


‘Pickle Ball is Life’, said the well-worn T-shirt on the vivacious, 40-something, mother of three with the wicked backhand.  Well, it’s pretty fun but I don’t know about ‘life’.  I’ve delved into Americas fastest growing sport lately and here is what all the fuss is about;

It might have a silly name, but Pickleball is not just a goofy old man’s sport.  It’s easy to learn and play but it’s hard to get good at.  The game has nuance.  It’s a cross between ping pong, racquetball, squash and tennis.   Beginners can easily hit the ball over the net while intermediates can really whack it.  Advanced players bring it to the net and Dink softly while the elite players move their feet and play for angles and position.  You play with your racket and arm, but you win with your head and your legs.  The smaller court is easy to navigate, and it is played with a wiffle-ball that you can hit hard but it slows down quickly from the wind resistance in the holes.  There is also a buffer zone at the net called the Kitchen that you must stay out of when smashing, so you don’t hurt anyone or yourself, but it is seldom an issue.*  You can even miraculously hit it around the net post on real wide shots! 

Pball is tremendously social.   It’s like golf, where you can play with friends and family, the kids or your parents.  Attractive and athletic women or men will introduce themselves kindly to you and then trash talk and trounce you on the court.  Doctors play with ditch diggers while new Latin ladies play with old-school white guys.**  Women are as good as men and testosterone is probably a disadvantage, so the court is level and there is no Affirmative Action needed.  A game will last 10-20 minutes so it is moderately aerobic, fat burning exercise or light interval training at best.  It is very compatible for off-days, resting from skiing and biking while building a base stamina and strength, without beating yourself up.  Most players have an ailment and an injury or two but not much is said.  Everyone has something.  It is no more dangerous than any other equal pursuit. 

This game is a microcosm of sport.  Play easy or go for it.  Hit it low and down the middle or aim for the lines.  Drop that third shot right over the net or aim for their feet in no-mans-land.  Keep the ball in play or go for the impossible, ESPN human-highlight shots.  Pick on their weak partner’s forehand or focus on a good players backhand.  It can be very organized and competitive with player ratings and rankings, tournaments and standings, or you can play it casual with friends, not caring about the score, Players range in class and caste; from the elite A teams who never seem to wait or split up, all the way to the beginners and the untouchables who can play with anybody and everybody.  Teams are often formed randomly off the on-deck rack so you always meet a new mix of people and play at different levels. ***

So pickleball might not be life, but what is.  I’ve played with some very aggressive, high roller entrepreneurs that just like to keep the ball in play as well as some very timid housewives that just want to kill it and tell me that ‘winning is everything’.  Maybe it’s like Cornhole, a fun game with a silly name or goofy reputation.  So go to your nearest park or Rec Center and see for yourself.  You may find your next passion or the meaning of life. 

 

*The air friction is proportional to the ball velocity cubed, not squared like solid objects like bikes or skiiers, that keeps us all safe and prevents bruising or sore feelings.  It is like a squash ball that dies on the bounce and you have to really go after it, not like racquetball where if you stand in one spot the ball will eventually come to you. 

**Every court has its culture and we have played from Tuscon to Temecula, Tesuque to Tuhaye.  One court had a Latino group that only played with each other and not the rich white guys.  They were the best and I tried to get in their game.  They were funny at first when declining me but then they got mean and in my face, until I asked them if they were afraid and they all howled and scoffed.  They let me play and kicked my ass but we had a great time bridging cultural boundaries and improving racial relations

***It has become so popular that they are turning empty tennis courts into P-ball courts to keep up.  4 Pball courts entertain 16 people per tennis court but tennis courts still remain underutilized while 20-30 people consistently wait for Pall courts every morning.  Recreational managers are ignoring or resisting the Pball flood but perhaps portable Pball nets can be used to fill unused tennis courts until adequate facilities can be built for this growing constituency.  


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